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16 febbraio

We are the Ones

The Blessing of No
 
I asked Creator to remove my feelings of self-importance.
Creator said, "No"
"It is not for me to remove this feeling you dislike.
It is your job to make it go away."
 
I asked Creator to grant me tolerance.
Creator said, "No"
"Tolerane wells up from disrespect.
Tolerance isn't granted, it is earned."
 
I asked Creator to fill me with cheer.
Creator again said, "No"
"I give you blessings, finding that which brings you cheer, is up to you."
 
I asked Creator to free me from anguish.
Creator said, "No"
"Anguish draws you apart from worldly pleasures and brings you closer to me."
 
I asked Creator to make my spirit grow.
Creator said, "No"
"You must grow on your own, but I will trim you to make you fruitful."
 
I asked for all things that might allow me to more enjoy life.
Creator said, "No"
"I will give you life so that you may enjoy all things."
 
I asked Creator to teach me to love others, as he loves me.
Creator said, "Ahhhh, finally you understand!"
24 ottobre

:《當你老了》——

:《當你老了》——

  當你老了

  當你老了,頭白了,

  睡思昏沉,爐火旁打盹,

  請取下這部詩集,慢慢念,

  念及你過去眼神的魅力,

  念及它們昔日濃重的陰影;

  多少人愛你青春的歡暢,

  愛你的美麗,假意或真心,

  只有一個人愛你朝聖者的靈魂,

  愛你的皺紋,在衰老的臉上;

  垂下頭,在紅光閃耀的爐邊,

  悄悄念,念及那愛情的逝波,

  在頭頂的山上它緩步走過,

  朦朧面紗隱入群星的遺念。

21 ottobre

The Sadest Thing

Whats the most sadest thing in this world? Beauty no one observes? Value no one appreciates? Wonder no one discovers? No, the sadest thing in this world is when you think certain things are great, certain people are wonderful, but then there is your perfect chance to watch it all shadders, bit by bit, piece by piece, can not run from it, ca n't not hide anywhere.  Every moment there is to prove your perceptions are all wrong, your realities are all wrong, that's it, your perceptions are your realties, only you choose to believe, while others all against.
13 giugno

Change is good, but not always.

Everytime I update my blog, it just means that I am extremely bored at the moment, and looking for a way out of it.  Many changes lately, been moving around a lot.  Now I am finally getting some rest, but feeling bored.  Is that just the way I have to be? Restless?  Everyone has to settle soon or later, no one has that much energy to bounce off the walls all the time.  Many changes with friends too.  Some jointed a band, some been travelling, some had kids, some getting old.  Guess changes are good, but not all the time.  If you always in a state of moving, it's hard to get peace of mind.  Get control of my desire is what I want.  Don't like being ouf of control.
 
 
Who do you decide to let in your life is a big question, that would determine what's gonna happen to you in a year or two.  Always thinking about that, what I could have done otherwise so the outcome would be totally different.
 
Feeling blessed too. Shouldn't complain. It's only gonna get better.
 
Bless all the childer born this year!
01 novembre

如何讓12星座男人俯首稱臣

如何讓12星座男人俯首稱臣
 
上貼人:巫妹reenafay 發表時間:2006-10-23 06:16:16

  白羊座

  白羊男是十二星座男人最具進取心和競爭力之一。巫妹雖然很想避免說“最”,但是,無可奈何,實在得說, 白羊男是最以自我為中心,最不服輸,最好斗的男人。他們生性勇敢,還沒考慮清楚后果,就先行動了。追白羊座的男生簡直就是mission impossible。無論你是多优秀的女孩子,巫妹勸你還是趁早死心吧。只有他辛辛苦苦追求來的,他才能好好珍惜。如果某個女生被稱“很難追”,那白羊男就要蠢蠢欲動了。所以想讓白羊男注意你,就在他面前充分展示你的魅力,同時無視這個臭屁的男人。在白羊男喜歡上某個女孩后,如果還有別的競爭者,那就再好不過了。白羊座喜歡有情敵,這樣他的七十二般本領才能派得上用場。白羊座往往能在這种“公平競爭”中取胜,獲胜率是百分之二百五。所以,巫妹在這里深深同情一下白羊男的情敵們。節哀順變吧,誰叫你的情敵是白羊男呢~~?

  金牛座

  金牛男平生最擅長暗戀,不知道是不是因為太會欣賞女孩子了,他仿佛特別容易就對人家產生好感。百分之九十九點九的情況下,都不會有進一步發展。你或許要笑話他有賊心沒賊膽儿了,其實不然。他這樣往往是因為太有責任心,要對對方負責,他做夢都這么想。談一次戀愛就做一次夢,他想娶你,他不是鬧著玩的。這樣的“野心”他也知道不現實,所以,除非他有十足的把握,否則不會輕易開始。金牛的老婆們可說是世界上最幸福的女人們了,他需要你做的,就是美麗地站在他旁邊,露出全世界最幸福的笑容,讓全世界都知道,是金牛牛讓你如此美麗幸福的~(例子~貝克漢姆和他老婆~)想要勾引牛牛的女人們要,隨時保持漂亮和有魅力,起碼你要讓他覺得你很美,這樣他才能有動力喜歡你~否則。。。后果自負。。。

  雙子座

  沒有一個雙子座的愛情是平平淡淡的。“轟轟烈烈,風風火火,興高采烈,刺激浪漫,离經叛道,万人鄙棄,刻骨銘心,痛不欲生,淚流成河,絕情寡義,重情重義。。。”這些詞都能從雙子男的愛情中找到。他的每段愛情都凄美得不真實,他的每段愛情都能寫個劇本,賺盡世人眼淚。要跟雙子戀愛,你一定要有顆強壯的心髒。巫妹提醒你,挺住,別死掉!!他拒絕你的理由,和他要求跟你在一起的理由一樣令人郁悶。這是一個崩潰的人,注定要有n段崩潰的戀情。如果你認為韓劇是騙人的,就請看看你眼前的雙子男吧~雙子座的愛情,注定是受万人矚目的。雙子男的女主角們啊,可愛,(雙子的眼光只會選中舉世無雙的女孩)可敬,(敢跟雙子戀愛,膽量可敬)可怜(分手時)。。。雙子男喜歡開動腦筋的游戲,要在他面前表現出你的聰明机智,与眾不同,這樣才可能吸引他~

  巨蟹座

  据巫妹觀察,有本事的巨蟹座男人,不會在十几歲的年齡談戀愛。他們名世間真理,讀圣賢書,但唯獨愛情二字,碰也不碰。然而天生招人喜歡,說他們情竇未開我可不信。。。巨蟹越老越值錢,他的魅力持續到中年都絲毫不減,所以想和巨蟹有所發展的同學們,你大可慢慢等待。巨蟹年輕時的對象,基本上都成了犧牲品,開心的玩玩還行,天長地久就不用想了。。而成熟的巨蟹,就像所有書中描繪的那樣,可以當模范老公了~~想釣巨蟹男的mm們,第一步就是取得他們的信任,蟹子一般都极其敏感,深刻,很難有人知道他在想什么,表現成一個解語花,你的善解人意才能打動他。你的自信開朗,能讓他們感到欽羡。

  獅子座

  獅子男往往長的十分英俊挺拔,即使是個子不高的獅子男,也會有一种獨特貴族气質,非常吸引人。獅子男會注意那些值得他注意的女孩,不僅僅是优秀,而且是有個性的优秀,高貴的优秀。火相星座的男人會被陽光四射的女孩吸引,如果能在藝術造詣和家庭背景上高人一籌,他更會對你刮目相看~獅子男最頭疼郁悶的女人,所以怜憫戰術是沒有用的~想讓獅子男因為可怜你而喜歡你,那是不可能的~不過呢,和獅子男在一起后,就要忠貞不渝,不能三心二意,王者豈能容忍自己的女人在心里還想著別的男人。這是獅子王的大忌~

  處女座

  如果你善良真誠,如果你智慧成熟,如果你深明大義,如果你純洁溫柔,那等他喜歡你,不過是早晚的事。他的好處我就不一一到來了。所以讓這么好的一個男人俯首稱臣有點太不忍心下手了。怜憫戰術對處女座是很有用的,你要是尋求他的幫助,他多半不會拒絕。樂于助人而且不會拒絕人。所以給處女座的男人下套其實很簡單,即使得到都沒有成就感。所以,下套不是目的,因為跟他們真的在一起,好戲才剛剛上演呢。不要嘗試用樣貌取悅他,他只會投來一個沒感覺的眼神。他們的戀情波瀾不惊,比水淡,穩定而長久。如果喜歡這种波瀾不惊的生活,那就找對人了~記住不要欲擒故縱,他不喜歡,然后就是,別拿分手試探他,否則倒霉的可能是你自己哦~

  天秤座

  陌上桑的最后几句可以用來形容天秤座。為人風度翩翩,又是個和平主義者。表面上看,可說是個不錯的男朋友。和處女木頭不同,天秤可說是調情高手,而且极有格調。小女孩最容易被這种大灰狼騙掉~想釣天秤座,先照照鏡子自己夠不夠漂亮,它不是某木頭,他非常注重你的長相,更准确的說,是气質。。然后,你還必須有格調品味~想追天秤的女孩子們,一定會因為這次經驗而是自己魅力大增~~

  天蝎座

  天蝎男算是十二星座里最复雜最危險的星座。你确定要讓他臣服么?他的吸引力流露得自然至极,等你發現愛上他時,已中了蝎毒至深了。他的表現能誤導你,通過天蝎座的行為,別想判斷出他的真實想法,那是假象的迷惑。因為他連自己都不清楚到底想要什么。天蝎人的愛情傷人傷己。十月出生的天蝎座,還受天秤座的影響,從小到大愛上和傷害的人都能組成一個團,他就在這個過程中長大。對愛情執著的往往是十一月出生的天蝎,被傷害大于傷害人。早年的天蝎男愛情基本沒什么好事發生,這是個積聚災難的年齡。所以呢~安全起見,別招惹他們~而一個成熟的天蝎男,當他懂得怎么愛一個人時,會是個專情的好戀人的~

  射手座

  射手男呢,是十二星座里最不講信用,最健忘的星座。不像白羊和獅子那樣需要通過成績和他人來肯定自己,射手座的唯我獨尊就是一种本能。說白了就是极度自戀。他自己就是拽啊拽啊拽的不得了~老天爺往往又給了他們拽的資本,真是蒼天無眼。這是個花花公子,調情大王,他一天不對女生拍馬屁,恐怕要憋出病來。千万別把他的鬼話當真,無論他說多在乎你,那也不過是保質期長短不同,沒大區別...對付這种男人,就是玩他,讓他就是得不到你,偶爾給他個甜果子吃,慢慢玩儿,耗死他~(看來巫妹對射手座成見頗深啊~~)值得一提的是,射手座和摩羯座的交界出生的人,受摩羯本性影響,卻可以愛得一如既往,行事作風和別的射手有些不同,他們的愛倒是可以持續很長時間的說~

  摩羯座

  忠厚老實,如果說處女是木頭,那摩羯就可以算是石頭了。無論你用什么辦法,只要你愛他至深,他也不會薄情于你,基本上應該算是十二星座里最容易拿下的吧~~但是,往往是姐姐妹妹們都對摩羯座沒興趣~可能他真的太石頭了吧~其實摩羯座都是大器晚成,和這家伙過日子的話,其實挺好的,自己特別省,攢的錢都是老婆的~

  水瓶座

  比起另外兩給風向星座,水瓶更踏實。沒談戀愛的時候或許看上去多情,戀愛后卻非常可以信任的說。當然,還有一些水瓶連多情都沒有,一心一意的讀書啊~~摩羯和水瓶交界出生的人,能繼承更多摩羯的踏實,再加水瓶的天資,非常理想。(巫妹以后如果需要生孩子,就生摩羯水瓶座的~哈哈~)言歸正傳,水瓶喜歡好女孩。這話听起來很廢話,不過卻是真的。德智体全面發展的女孩能吸引他,他對优秀的向往,是很重要地~一旦他喜歡上你,他的寬容大度,那簡直是。。infinite~有福咯~

  雙魚座

  這是個小孩子,這是個大男人。這就是雙魚的本質。他是小孩子,所以你要像姐姐或媽媽一樣寬容和指引他,他是個大男人,所以你要像個小女人一樣乖乖的,小鳥依人,滿足他大男人的自尊。 他會安慰人,他体貼入微,但他更需要人安慰。理解他的脆弱,就得到了他的心,你們如果可以相濡以沫,就能成為幸福的一對。切記,不要以為雙魚男殷勤地安慰或幫助你,就是喜歡上你了,因為他對誰都那樣。真正讓他喜歡上你,是要讓他覺得你是個可以讓他依靠的女人,而不是依靠他的女人。他專情又濫情,天下皆知,所以寬容他,給他自由,給他成長的空間,它對自由的依賴,比任何星座都強。所以,當他脆弱到不想讓你看到的時候,就安靜地走開,因為他還是你的,他想清楚了自然會回來好好愛你~

30 ottobre

This day will end no matter what.

Feel really really tired recently, nothing goes well.  I probably want to do much, trying to kill myself...What to do first?  What's my priority? So confused.  I want to say this is the order, family, business, moral, love, in that order.  To me, love is really overrated.  Good thing I still have friends and family by my side, but ever since I moved back to west side, all Chinese friends suddently disappeared.  If someone called me and started to talk in Chinese, I would feel really weired about it.  Just a strange feeling.  To what percentage that I am still Chinese?  That's a good question.  I want to say that people you interact with everyday realy affect the quality of your life.  But lately, I have a feeling that I have lost the tract of things, like what happened first, what happened next, all messed up.  I really need some time away from the city, it's crazy here. 
13 settembre

Hermosa Beach -- The perfect moment in time, Captured.

 
Went to beach with friends, it was so nice out there, a perfect day, but somehow I couldn't enjoy it all.  There are always things on my mind, why you have to have so much to worry when you grow up?  I have to learn not to think about it all the time and just enjoy myself.  Shannon, I miss you so much, I wish you were here with me so I could tell you all my worries and then you can worry with me, hehe.
12 agosto

Too fast, too furious

有的时候,会忽然为了一个IDEA而兴奋不已,自己也控制不了,想象中的世界总是美好的,可以按照自己的意愿随意编造,各种人物,事件,原因,结果,那末有趣,可是当幻想梦醒,才知道,原来,感觉也是可以想象出来的,也可以是没有太多现实根据的,而且是那末不堪一击,甚至有点幼稚可笑,还好,当需要做决定的时候,没有完全凭感觉和想象,不然真的要天下大乱.  生活的本色是没有太多意思的,也经不起想象力的考验,当醒来的时候,原来,世界没有改变.
 
我知道,我可以在一分钟内做一个决定,也可以在一分钟内改变主意,这种速度可能让人心碎,所以,永远不回要求别人的原谅.....
04 agosto

十二星座的宿命婚姻緣分

十二星座的宿命婚姻緣分
 
上貼人:亂亂小雙子 發表時間:2006-08-03 00:06:24

  白羊座

  姻緣較為复雜,既有前生注定的夙世姻緣,亦有短暫的霧水情緣,要是纏上霧水情緣時不知進退,極可能在夙世姻緣出現時移情別戀。要分辦兩者並不困難,當你發覺姻緣出現的時候,不要太心急,只要有耐性,霧水情緣很快就會過去。以為兩情相悅就立即以身相許是白羊座的禁忌,更要控制突然而來的戀愛熱情。

  金牛座

  金牛座的人是十二星座中最喜歡跟緣份唱反調的人,明明心中對某人有好感,卻又要以情欲或其它外在因素為優先考慮,將自己的真心真意放在一旁。很多金牛座的人都會在情場打滾一段時間,最后仍然回到自己最初的戀愛對象身邊。緣份總是將金牛座拉到他們覺得太平凡、太普通的異性那里去。

  雙子座

  緣份一定在花好月圓的浪漫時刻與有緣人相遇。兩人不必花心思、花精神就能夠互相了解,明白應該明白的事。可惜,雙子座的人不會在意那種緣份的感覺,有可能在緣份已成過去才能明白自己已經錯過緣份。緣份出現的時候要好好地珍惜,和對方一起的時候,有甜蜜的感覺就是緣份出現的最佳證明。

  巨蟹座

  巨蟹座的人是十二星座中最容易被緣份作弄的人,命中注定的有緣人會是性格上有很多矛盾的人。相處的時候會有很多摩擦,個人興趣與人生路途都無法一致。緣份將兩個分歧很大的人拉在一起,必然會遭遇很多挫折與磨練。雖然有較多吵鬧,巨蟹座的姻緣卻是最難舍難離。無論哪一方陷入困境,對方都會不離不棄。

  獅子座

  獅子座的人,尤其是獅子座的女性,對緣份特別敏感。一旦姻緣出現,必定能夠感受得到,戀愛關系屬于戀愛對象出現就熱情地投入,很快就會結成一對,由結識至談婚論嫁的時間可能很短。獅子座的人有等待緣份來臨的性格,但要是因為生活上的煩惱而令獅子座對姻緣的感應力下降,那就會令獅子座的戀愛陷于完全沒有氣息的呆滯狀態。

  處女座

  處女座的人可能出現千里姻緣。在旅游、遠行或出差公干時最容易遇到意料之外的姻緣。千里姻緣表面上看來並不穩當,而且文化與生活習慣的分歧很大,事實上並非如此。很多處女座的千里姻緣都是心連心,感情聯系強烈,有些更能從彼此的分歧之中得益。

  天秤座

  天秤座的姻緣通常都是志趣相投、性格相近。他們會受到很多人的祝福和支持,結合的時候所有人都會覺得很開心。兩人之間偶爾出現意見分歧也能和平解決;即使無法解決,很多人會盡力調停他們的糾紛。兩人性格相近,對前景同樣是傾向于過分樂觀。

  天蝎座

  天蝎座的姻緣受到情欲的影響,有可能是肉體上的緣份大于心靈上的緣份。因性而愛的姻緣會在床的失和時充滿緊張氣氛,熱情的時候又會難舍難離。最初結識時,兩人之間已有強烈的吸引力,一旦發生肉體上的接觸就會任由情欲擺布。相對其它星座,天蝎座的姻緣有較少爭端。對于天蝎座的人來說,緣份出現時就要投緣,想擺脫也是無能為力了。

  射手座

  射手座的姻緣不會是天生一對的組合,通常是高矮肥瘦的配搭,背景相差較大,性格相差較少,有可能是青梅竹馬的親戚,也可能是同學或同事,總之是經常見面及相識已久的人。最初可能只會打打罵罵,但是一旦緣份出現,就會快速地發展成戀情。感情發展不但令身邊的人大吃一驚,甚至連當事人也會難以置信。

  摩羯座

  摩羯座的人比較實事求是,不會憧憬剎那間著魔似的緣份。摩羯座的人認為一見鍾情是怪現象,緣份只是騙人,可是到了他們自己緣份上身時,就會身不由己,無論怎樣也擺脫不了。如果你看到平常不化妝或不講究化妝的摩羯座女性突然買了一大堆化妝品的時候,就表明她們已經被月下老人的紅線扯住了。

  水瓶座

  緣份出現時特別夸張,可以用“鬼上身”來形容,那是突然而來對男女感情的沉迷,只要和對方一起就會有幸福感。那樣的幸福來得相當突然,可能是一見鍾情,可能是一見難忘。要是水瓶座的人搞錯了,以為一時激情就是緣份,損失可能非常慘重。

  雙魚座

  緣份通常會改變雙魚座的性格,那是因為雙魚座的人發現了真愛,姻緣在望,必定遷就對方。打從結識開始,雙魚座一方就會不斷嘗試新的化妝與言談,甚至改變個人興趣與喜好遷就對方。例如平時大笑姑婆的雙魚座突然含蓄起來,掩著嘴巴才笑,而且說話文雅,這位大笑姑婆應該是心有所屬了。

16 luglio

Knight of Wands

There is no card in the Tarot that portrays such daring and enthusiasm as the Knight of Wands. His energy and courage are boundless, and he has no fear of anything; while this sometimes serves to get him into trouble, these are also the means by which he can free himself from any detrimental situation. There are few times when he does not move with the speed of a flash of lightning. When he rides into the area he always kicks up dust behind him, and when he enters your life he can be one of three things. He could be a person around you, an event that you will experience, or a part of yourself that you must bring to the surface.

Any event that enters your life quickly and unexpectedly is generally ruled and predicted by the Knight of Wands. His energy moves with the speed of a raging fire pushed onward by the wind, and with just as much energy as such a blaze. The Knight often represents the coming or going of an important matter, and you can rest assured that these comings and going will be swift ones, no matter what the matter involved. He also augurs speedy changes of residence, which may not be advisable but which are sometimes necessary. Sometimes he shows that an important person will be either leaving your life or coming into it.

Such a person, when shown by the Knight of Wands, shares his spontaneity and kinetic outlook on life. Though he may seem gruff or even violent at first glance, underneath that armor he wears a warm and generous heart. He will be highly supportive of those he considers friends - and you'd be surprised how high that number can go! He typifies the "knight in shining armor" prototype because he is always swooping into situations, saving the day and then moving on to the next adventure. This suddenness hides a deep sense of morality and honor; he is always ready to protect those who cannot defend themselves. But he cannot stand to stay in one place for long; there is always more to do.

If the Knight of Wands shows energy within yourself that you have to bring to the surface, doing so shouldn't be very difficult. In fact, keeping it in may be harder than letting it out, so you probably shouldn't attempt to fight it at all! Your confidence levels will rise to the surface along with the Knight's energy, and you'll feel ready to take on the world. Tackle any and all challenges that come into your path, and always be ready to help others who lack your determination and exuberance. Take the torch he offers you and step into the light of your own strength. Just be careful not to burn yourself while holding that flickering flame!

 
 

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19 maggio

Fun Math

ROMANCE MATHEMATICS

Smart man + smart woman = romance

Smart man + dumb woman = affair

Dumb man + smart woman = marriage

Dumb man + dumb woman = pregnancy

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OFFICE ARITHMETIC

Smart boss + smart employee = profit

Smart boss + dumb employee = production

Dumb boss + smart employee = promotion

Dumb boss + dumb employee = overtime

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SHOPPING MATH

A man will pay $20 for a $10 item he needs.

A woman will pay $10 for a $20 item that she doesn't need.

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GENERAL EQUATIONS & STATISTICS

A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband.

A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife.

A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend.

A successful woman is one who can find such a man.

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HAPPINESS

To be happy with a man, you must understand him a lot and love him a lot.

To be happy with a woman, you must love her a lot and not try to understand her

at all.

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LONGEVITY

Married men live longer than single men do, but married men are a lot more

willing to die.

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PROPENSITY TO CHANGE

A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't.

A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change, and she does.

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DISCUSSION TECHNIQUE

A woman has the last word in any argument.

Anything a man says after that is the beginning of a new argument.

 

 

HOW TO STOP PEOPLE FROM BUGGING YOU ABOUT GETTING MARRIED

Old aunts used to come up to me at weddings, poking me in the ribs and cackling,

telling me, "You're next." They stopped after I started doing the same thing to

them at funerals.

 

SEND THIS TO A SMART WOMAN WHO NEEDS A LAUGH AND TO THE SMART GUYS YOU KNOW CAN

HANDLE IT